Wednesday, May 25, 2022

And it's over!

Oh yeah! This deserves an entry in my blog. Can't believe it's over. It happened yesterday, technically today, around 12:15 AM. Roughly 24 hours ago, that is! I'm finally done watching the "Friends" series 😐!!!

There's a long background to this, which I'd try and write it down here may be. "Friends" is something I have been watching for the past 2.5 years! Yeah, it wasn't something I was binge watching. It was something I was slowly assimilating, 20 mins a day. Because, it deserves to be taken that way!

During one of my conversations with one of my besties when I was deep down in despair and void, she suggested that I start watching "Friends" series. I usually don't take advice from others. Because, most of the times, I know what I want and what makes me happy. Also, she is not the usual kind who gives advice. And this suggestion coming from her is, sort of, not expected. I did not heed to it immediately. But in Dec 2019, around the time I shifted to Bangalore for my job, it randomly crossed my mind and I took Netflix subscription just for the sake of "Friends". And, I'm so glad I did.

This undoubtedly is one of the best things that happened to me in life. 99% of the times, I used to end my day with "Friends". And yes, this period includes my 2 years of MBA too. No matter how late, I used to end my day with it. And what a great way to end it. Pure, unadulterated friendship, with people living life with no inhibitions and ego. This is how humans are supposed to conduct themselves, I say. Do we really find it these days? As cliched as it might sound, gone are those days. And what I couldn't find, out in the world, I found it in this series.

Here's to the 2.5 years of "Friends"! :) 

Saturday, May 7, 2022

Why capital punishment is only right!

So, a person commits rape and we simply hang him and kill him*? There's no mercy? No forgiving? One may ask! Not any random one, a bench of judges opines the same.

(*Don't call me a female chauvinist or sexist for not using "him or her" there. I haven't come across any instances of women raping men or other genders).

In a recent judgment, Supreme Court commuted the death sentence granted to a rapist, saying "Every sinner has a future".

What BS was that? If every sinner has a future, then what about their victims in the future? They don't need a future? It's not always about the vindication of the past victim (the one who suffered), it's also about the people in the future.

These buggers of so-called compassion (towards the undeserving) have lost it, along with the rapists. A few things from what they said:

"...the maximum punishment prescribed may not always be the determinative factor for repairing the crippled psyche of the offender." -- First & foremost, repairing the crippled psyche is not the primary motto of delivering justice. Sometimes repairing a fellow human is beyond the power of humans. I don't know which form of justice calls for commuting of death sentence. Going by punitive/retributive and even preventive justice, the capital punishment is very befitting for such cases.

This is not a normal instance of rape (And I don't imply that rape can be normal. It goes without saying that rape is an extremely abnormal act). It's a gruesome act of pedophilia where a 4 year old child was brutally raped and murdered! Even if it is an adult in the place of a child, the nature of the crime doesn't change suddenly. It is as ghastly as that. If they couldn't be moved by the suffering of a fellow human, they wouldn't be moved by that of a child either. They are just too insensitive and indifferent to differentiate all that.

Also, if one is looking at rehabilitation and repairing of the convict, many past instances show that rapists don't have the faintest of remorse . The Nirbhaya case is a glaring evidence for that. Same seems to be the case with the family members of the rapists, in general. They don't exhibit compassion either. Same case with the juvenile rapists. Aruna Shanbaug's case is another instance. She was sodomized and left in a vegetative state for the rest of her life and the person who committed it was not convicted of rape, as the laws then did not consider sodomy as rape. Years after the crime, the convict does seem to show remorse, but has a double-talk - on one hand he says he shall ask for forgiveness given his sins and on the other hand he says he did not commit the act he was accused of.

If gruesome rapes are on one end of the spectrum, cheating and raping women in the guise of love are at the other end. The death of the then budding actress Pratyusha in Feb 2002 was one such instance. As far as I can recall from the news back then, on the night of her death she went out along with her lover and his friends, but the news that was out was - it was a suicide pact between her and her lover, as their parents did not approve of their relationship. And that while she succumbed, he survived. There are some movies covering such incidents. (Sarpa Yagam (0:55:00 - 1:11:00), Telugu movie from 1991 to Ghatana (00:45:55 - 1:06:30), 2014 Telugu remake of a Malayalam movie). But how women respond to such incidents changed with time, as it should. From asking their father in the suicide note, to avenge the act, to avenging the act themselves. Movies aside, when it comes to real-life incidents, forget revenge and vindication, the culprits are not even brought to book. They get away with such incidents easily. The acts may not be as gruesome as those discussed in the previous para, but they are heart-breaking and life-destroying, to say the least. "Moving on" with life is not easy if the woman happens to be alive after rape, in such cases.

Coming back to the judgement discussed in the opening para, that a sinner should have a future too, the bench cited this: "Oscar Wilde has said - "The only difference between the saint and the sinner is that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future"." -- Really? Is that the only difference? If Oscar Wilde said that, then damn him and his thoughts, I say! He also said, "I can resist anything but temptation!" So what, I ask!

The voice against capital punishment has been on the rise in India for quite some time and it is not just with rape incidents. (Some very recent commutation orders here). I'd say all those people who have been raising their voices, have also been high on pseudo-compassion. Selective compassion, at that. Where the life of the affected/dead is not of concern, but only those of who are alive. It's like "being alive" is valued highly. People whose lives have been taken away or destroyed at all levels have no value, so to say. To damn with all of them. I reiterate (I said this in the past too, in my blog), the modern society has a very rudimentary understanding of punishment.

Your Honour! (Whoever it is, that is hearing me from above; Readers, please don't bother! Not addressing you here) With all the details submitted above, I unequivocally opine, believe and argue that Capital Punishment is the only right punishment in the above incidents and demand justice. I submit and rest my case here.

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A channeled message from my blog post from Feb 19, 2014, that did not go into my book - 

"ఎవరో ఒక మహానుభావుడు నాకు ఒక "Golden Idea" ఇచ్చాడు నాకు, మన మనసు లో ఉన్నవి వారికి స్వయంగా చెప్పవద్దట, బ్లాగ్ లో రాయాలట! ఇప్పుడు నేను చెప్పేది విని వాడు చస్తాడో, బ్రతుకుతాడో, చస్తూ బ్రతుకుతాడో, బ్రతుకుతూ చస్తాడో, వాడి ఇష్టం:

తూ! నీ బ్రతుకు చెడ!
పెళ్ళాం తో సంసారం చెయ్యలేని నీకు ఈ భవంతులు ఉంటే ఏంటి, ఊడితే ఏంటి? పెళ్ళెందుకు, పెళ్ళాం ఎందుకు? భార్య కల్ల ముందుకు స్వయం గా వచ్చి మాట్లాడనప్పుడు, ఆ భార్య తో నీకు పనేంటి? తన  నుంచి నువ్వు ఆసించేదేంటి? తన పట్ల కర్తవ్యమ్ నువ్వు నెరవేర్చనప్పుడు, తనతో పనేంటి నీకస్సలు?

ఏంట్రా, ఈ సివిలైజేషన్ అంతా ఆడవాళ్ళని మెప్పించడానికా?
ఎందుకురా ఆడవారి కన్నీటి మీద, క్షోభ మీద, ఈ భవిష్యత్తును నిర్మిస్తున్నారు?

ఇంకా ఏమంటున్నావు? తండ్రి తో పని లేదా నీకు?
నిజంగా మగాడివయితే , ఒక భర్త బాధ్యతను నిజంగా స్వీకరించి నేరవేర్చినప్పుడు, అప్పుడు తెలుస్తుంది నిజమైన తండ్రి బాధ్యత! ఏ యు.యస్  తప్పించి ఇంకో ప్రపంచం తెలీదా నీకు, చూడలేదా యూరప్ ని, చూడలేదా ఇండియా లో మంచి తండ్రులని? అయినా నీ లాంటి నిక్రుష్టల వలన కదూ, తండ్రి పాత్ర తగ్గుతూ వస్తుంది? అటు తండ్రి ని, ఇటు తల్లిని కష్ట పెడుతున్నారు!

ఇంకొక మాట, ఇంకొక్క మాట, ఈ సృష్టి గురించి గాని, ఈ సృష్టి స్థితి లయ కారణాల గురించి గాని, ఈ సృష్టి గమనాన్ని గురించి గాని మాట్లాడావో, నాకు నువ్వు మళ్ళీ కనిపిచ్చినప్పుడు చెప్పిచ్చుకుని కొడతాను. వాటి గురించి మాట్లాడే అర్హతని,  నా ద్రిష్టిలో నువ్వు ఎప్పుడో కోల్పోయావు! నీతి మాలిన కుక్క! నాకు ఇంతకంటే బూతులు రావు!

మనుషుల కర్మ ఫలాలను వారికి అంద జేయకుండా, వారికి సంప్రాప్తించ వలసిన మోక్షాన్ని వారికి అందనివ్వకుండా, వారి కుళ్ళు నుంచి, కుళ్ళు మనుషులను ఏర్పరిచి, ఒక కుళ్ళు సమాజాన్ని నువ్వు సృష్టిస్తే, ఆ కుళ్ళుని భరించే ఓపిక  గాని, అవసరం  గాని, ఇక్కడ ఎవరికీ లేదు. ఆ కుల్లేదో నువ్వే భరించు, ఆ  కుళ్ళులో, నువ్వు ఉంటావో, ఉండవో, బ్రతుకుతావో, చస్తావో నీ ఇష్టం. కానీ నీ బ్రతుకు వలన గాని, చావు వలన గాని, నాకు ఎటువంటి "ఫరక్" పడద్! Because YOU have been declared null and void!

If you thought the world needs to deteriorate further, for the judgement to be passed, that the last tree needs to be cut, that the last fish needs to be eaten, that the people should go insane and finally kill each other, then you are completely mistaken. This world is not Godless! The Gods know when and how to take the reins! The Universe will always try and evolve to its best possible state despite all the garbage dumped into it, it could be a zero state too, if you go any further on this small part of a huge system. We don't care if we are going towards a better or worse future from good or bad past as per YOUR parameters of development here on earth, but WE WOULD NOT LIKE TO SEE THIS KIND OF "PRESENT" here!!!"

- The Cosmic Consciousness & Energy speaking...

Wednesday, April 27, 2022

No promise of an easy road...Just the destination!

Thus go the lines in the song - "It's Alright" by Brandon Heath. And they are not mere lines in a random English song. It's a message that occurs to me faintly time and again (albeit not frequently) on my journey. Though it does not sound too optimistic, I had always seen it as a reassurance from the Universe. Because, after all it conveys that there's some force out there that knows my journey and has been kind enough to acknowledge me, in a truthful way, at that!

So now, why do I talk about this? Yeah, coming to THE point. My brother and his family (SIL & niece) are leaving planning to leave for US this May 11th. So yeah, all arrangements have been made. AND I absolutely hate they going to US. I don't want them to. I want them to stay here...along with the rest of the family. I have tried in all possible ways I can, to stop them, since this Jan end. But, I reached my limit of limits and gave up on it recently. And my brother almost said, "Go take a walk!" Not "almost", he said more than that.

I thought, "Ok, it's their Karma! Why stop it?" So yeah, that's what my "mind" thought. But you know this "heart" right? Doesn't settle down that easily. It kept saying to me, I have a role to play...to stop them, that is. That their destiny doesn't lie in US at all. But who cares? Who cares what I think and believe in? It, apparently, is their dream to be there and taste a different facet of life.

So, you may ask who am I to stop them. Rather why do I want to stop them. All may not understand why, but Love Does.

Saturday, April 16, 2022

KGF-2 !!!

KGF-2 is a mega movie in every way, itseems ! I don't know how, though...

So, I went to this movie today without checking any reviews and bumped into the above review after I came back from the movie.

Except for a scene or two, which were extremely good, KGF-1 itself was unrealistic for me. Now this KGF-2 was crazily unrealistic. Just kept wondering why they make such movies. Man, some fiction can be awful, I reckon.

Of course, I sort of know the answer. Because they sell, because people watch them. So, the next best question to ask is - why and how do people like such movies? (Or may be I should check why do I not like those movies, instead!)

In any case, here is this movie which is all macho...The hero can do anything and everything. He is invincible at all levels. At any point of time he is always ahead of everybody, ahead of everybody else's game. All set to win the world. "Duniya jeethna" hain unko... Arey bhai! Duniya kyaa aapka baap ke kursi hain kyaa...Nahin tho aapke ammi ki necklace? Ki aap aur bass aap hee usko jeethna hain?

Some typical patterns, the Mom makes this hero. And she believes and calls him Sultan, the emperor, at every point of the movie. Like, such conviction! Even at the age of 4 when he is sick and doctors say he is critical, she says, "Don't you dare comment on his longevity! He is Sultan and he will make my dreams come true!!" I mean, come on, give me a break (With all due respect to mothers here...No offence whatsoever!)

And then there is no value for human life in general. The hero and the villain kill people whenever and wherever, all they like. But their very own lives are pretty precious. They cannot JUST die that easily. And this be the hierarchy of value of life in these movies: Life of Heroine < Life of Villain < Life of Hero. Rest everybody be the ants.

Anyway, I can go on and on, but let me take a break here. The only good thing about the movie is costumes - Hero's suits and Heroine's lehengas. Some good ones there. And a few good lines which made sense in the movie...

"This story is made of blood, it cannot go ahead with ink, it needs more blood to finish it off!" (Something like that...And that was so damn true (for the movie)).

"History says powerful people come from powerful places. So not true! Powerful people make places powerful!" -- That was quite a line, dude!!

Anyway, I miss yesterday so much! Yesterday's RRR movie was sooooo good! Like every moment was so gripping, some of them jaw-dropping. Awesome, all the way!

Yeah, go watch KGF-2 if you want to. If you want to watch the magnanimity of movie-making. But logic...now, forget that. Lock logic at home and then go watch it.

Wednesday, March 30, 2022

Free !!!

It is the freedom to be one's own true self, express and experience that self - that every soul yearns for, at the end of the day. That freedom to truth is ultimately the happiness...the happiness of the soul.

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“I release my parents from the feeling that they might have somewhere failed me.

I release my children from the need to bring pride to me; so that they may write their own destiny their own ways according to their own hearts.

I release my partner from the obligation to complete me.

I do not lack anything.

I learn with all beings all the time.

I thank my grandparents and forefathers for that is how I can breathe life today.

I release them from past failures and unfulfilled desires, aware that they have done their best to resolve their situations within the consciousness they had at that moment.

So I say to them-I honor you, I love you and I recognize you as innocent.

I am transparent before your eyes, so they know that I do not hide or owe anything other than being true to myself and my existence.

Walking with the wisdom of the heart, I am aware that I fulfill my life project, free from invisible and visible family loyalties that might disturb my peace and happiness, (which are my only responsibilities.)

I renounce the role of savior, of being one who unites or fulfills the expectations of others.

Learning through, and only through, LOVE, I bless my essence, my way of expressing, even though somebody may not understand me.

I understand myself, because I alone have lived and experienced my history..because I know myself, I know who I am, what I feel, what I do and why I do it.

I respect and approve myself.

I honor the Divinity in me and in you.

We are free."

(This ancient blessing was created in the Nahuatl language, spoken in Mexico. It deals with forgiveness, affection, detachment and liberation)

Friday, December 31, 2021

It's not a wrap !!

Barring the pandemic, the huge number of fatalities in the second wave and the repercussions of work & study from home, it might have been life as usual for many in 2021. Or was it really? Has the world been as usual?

Some politicians in a few states in India continued to engage in name calling and condescending one another in public talks. Words which mean "Rogue", "Stupid", "Completely incompetent", "Hopeless", "Useless", "Runt" became a common place. In a state assembly, during a live session, one person even went to the extent of accusing an opposition leader, who was once a CM, that this leader was the one who got an erstwhile leader murdered because, as per him, the son of the former was born to the latter; And hence asking for that case to be re-opened.

And this statement in a live session that was being broadcasted. That day ought to be the black day in the political history of India, on which day the human spirit stooped to its lowest in the name of politics and power-wrangling. The speaker of the assembly, who ought to act unbiasedly, did not say a word despite such insanely irrelevant stuff to the proceedings of the house being uttered there. Neither did he condemn the act nor did he suspend the person who outraged the modesty of a couple openly when the whole state was watching it. All because, the speaker belonged to the same party which was in power and the person who made the accusations belonged to the same party. The current CM was grinning in a mocking way while this was happening, being a passive yet happy party to the crime. The opposition leader, on whom the accusation was made, broke down to tears and gathered himself quickly.

A sane person would not know where to bang their head being a spectator to this ignorant political drama. Many people came out and condemned it later. Eventually, the discussion fizzled out. Anyway, this was such a gruesome act that even merely discussing it further in public, would do more harm than good. This was not an instance where the people who were impacted or their relatives would file a defamation case and get justice. I myself was so disturbed that I impulsively considered filing a PIL and later realized the futility of it. Shouldn't the Supreme Court or the High Court take up this case suo motu and warn/jail both the person who made such derogatory remarks and the speaker who did not fulfill his responsibilities? Do we need people to go complain to the courts about such stuff which is out in the open?

This is a violation of fundamental human rights, damn it, a blot on human spirit. So, courts would punish people only for gruesome physical crimes like murder and rape or tangible crimes like theft etc? This may seem like a one-off, but no, it isn’t. This is just a blatant instance of emotional and intellectual rape, corruption of human spirit, a phenomenon that is silently going on in the society where people do not take others' emotions and feelings seriously, where people disregard others' existence completely let alone their work and contribution; where people are so self-centric that their acts are driven only and ONLY by their self-interests. And many are getting away with such acts. There's no moral or societal policing let alone a formal intervention by courts. What is at the core of this problem is - there is no respect for the other human and no fear for the society in case of a wrong-doing that’s not easily tangible.

When it comes to ethics and morals, there is no small or big mistake. It is moral or it isn’t. It is when we think it is ok to make small mistakes, that we make space for the bigger ones like Corruption, Complacency (Chalta hain, Kuch bhi chalta hain) and other systemic problems that encompass the society. And these days, many see punishment as a wrong thing; that speaking up against wrong, is wrong in itself because it humiliates the person who committed it. So, we remain silent and indifferent to the wrongs in the society and let the evil proliferate itself in the name of forgiving? Society is a complex organism and conflict is an integral part of it. The evolution of societal codes, norms and laws has a long-drawn history and the interpretation of punishment by the modern society seems to be a very rudimentary one to me. Even God doesn’t say we should remain silent to adharma (if one believes in the existence of the One) because God in essence is love and truth. That is really the essence of the shloka - yadha yadha hi dharmasya – in Bhagawad Gita.


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Coming back to 2021, the discussions and debates (let's call them brawls) continued unabated on the TV channels in which no person listens to the other. The organized format of debate and discussion lost its meaning. I doubt if any of those discussions solved a thing for the society, except bring the channels TRPs and contribute to the background noise in our daily lives, we are all so used to by now, while carrying out our routines.

On the other hand, in colleges and universities, where students are expected to engage in organized and meaningful discussions on subject and societal matters, to provoke and nurture inquisitive thought and reform, there is some sense of complacency and indifference.

The clickbait and twisted news reporting continued in newspapers. Very funny how D&I has been used in multiple instances to showcase how some organizations stand out, as if they were doing a favor to women and society, when in reality they were mere tantrums to enhance their brand and share values. And when D&I had to be used, it seems people completely forgot to apply it, lol! Here's an instance - an annual banking conclave where 30 men were invited as speakers. All men, not a single woman! That too in banking sector where there are many women wizards and there's no dearth of speakers. One would understand if it's just a panel of 5 or 6 and it was all men. But no, it was 30 of them.

Many wondered if they were in 2021 or some 18th century! Later the organizers corrected their mistake and issued an apology saying that this was an instance of oversight and that they did not try hard enough to get women speakers. They also went on to add a few women speakers.

And I'm still wondering if one needs a "D&I clause" to remember and include women - women who are such an integral part of life, society and business today. Would one need a checklist hanging on the wall to remind them that they need to include their mother too along with their father, in case they are seeking out opinions on a matter? Forgetting a vital part is an act of indifference, damn it. As bad as intentionally discriminating and suppressing. One may not be able to place both the acts equally, but both the acts have their weights, and neither is small.


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And coming to technology and the changing trends in the society as a result, 2021 has laid strong foundations for 5G and Metaverse; And also, for a lot of other technologies (Cloud, IoT, AI, ML, Massive Man-machine or machine-machine communication) that aid them and need to act in cohesion for both 5G and Metaverse to work. 5G and Metaverse are supposed to bring paradigm shifts in the way we live. But strangely there’s no feasibility study ever done to understand their impact on the planet, its resources and on the (physical, mental and emotional) health of humans. Yet, we venture to buy in to these technologies and start adapting ourselves and our lives to them.

Big corporations are saying (rather announcing proudly and subtly pushing mankind to believe that) Metaverse is an antidote to the lack of human connection, when in reality it is just quite the opposite. It is nothing but inviting our own doom upon us – it shall be the biggest trap ever to dehumanize interpersonal connections. Because this can be such a comfortable hack to circumvent the pleasures and pains a real life can offer. And it’s so easy to be trapped into it…all for a small list of benefits it might offer - education, entertainment and the democracy of participation from anywhere in the world. But seriously, do we not get these things outside the Metaverse? And what a heavy price to pay for the so-called benefits!

Do we even need to discuss and conclude that this virtual environment heavily focused on hedonism will blur the lines between virtual and real environments and draw people into obsession of living in virtual avatars and domes? Do we want to sell our souls to some powers of society in return of some hedonism and little information (and not wisdom!) Is our common-sense in deep slumber really, that what needs to be known inherently by each one of us, needs deliberation and discussion? And people don’t even seem to intend to discuss it, they might just go and adopt it, because we make-believe ourselves that this is the coolest thing to do because some powers in the society are offering them to us and because everybody else is doing it. And who is this 'everybody' really? Does it also not include you and me?

This is the biggest flaw of humanity staring at us – Scientism – That what (ever crap) arises out of Science (& Technology) is right and we very funnily want to use that very Science itself to prove it wrong. What is wrong inherently can never prove itself wrong, for your kind information, people! Unless it is an entity with a mind and soul, that has the grace to accept its mistakes. We need humans to understand that currently there are some flaws in some byproducts of Science, and that needs to be understood through means other than Science (as it exists today) and subsequently enhance Science. Science by itself is a noble field of study, but we should not forget that it is we humans who with our corrupted souls are capable of using and applying science in wicked ways against nature and our own selves.


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I’m not saying there is no good in the society or that we did not make any progress. We did make some progress, but most of it is materialistic and technological. Maybe, we have been successful in decreasing the proportions of poverty in the world. May be more people are able to put five fingers into their mouths at least twice a day. May be a lot more people are able to access cheap internet today and have access to information. That is “some” good, sure! And sure, there are always individuals who maintain integrity at their end and do the best they can to lead a virtuous life. But what I’m saying is, we as a society, we as a collective are going backwards ethically, morally and spiritually! We are dying a slow death inward while on the outside we may have all the material comforts.

Wind the clock back to 50 years and imagine where we stood. No mobile phones, no internet and a lot of manpower was needed to get things accomplished. And come back to NOW – all we need is mind power. No body power and soul power (spiritual strength). Think of the accelerated journey we have been in these 50 years against the backdrop of the whole journey of mankind so far. And think, just try to assess, how fatal such an acceleration can be.

Do we really want to march ahead to a future where we sell our minds and souls to a few powers in the society? Is our common sense sleeping? Is our wisdom sleeping? Is our soul sleeping?

Wake up! Hell yeah!! It IS time!!! A very good morning to all for a new year.

Sunday, December 26, 2021

Pranava Aalayam

 


Pranavalaya - Lyrics by Telugu lyricist, late Sri Sirivennela Seetha Ramashastry. Great to see his last work being divinely immortalized through mesmerizing rendition, picturization and performance...This piece must be exemplary of what comes out when people approach their work with devotion..This is just heavenly !

Incidentally, his first lyrics are for the movie, "Janani Janmabhoomi". Folks who understand Telugu will get the magic in these lyrics...but yeah apparently this is made in a few other languages too...

And this is how Dec 26, 2021 ought to end, as an antithesis to how Dec 26 was long etched in my memory...as the day of disaster...